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Oct 30, 2011 Rating Change your mind by: Anonymous What you are doing now is not fair.You are not giving any importance to your gal's feelings.How can you avoid a gal whom you loved for past 4 years at this stage of your life where you need to take serious decisions?If you lack the courage to introduce the matter before your parents,then i can say you are a coward.If you are that much concerned about your parents,you could have think it earlier before you started your love.At least that gal is saved from you.But you gave her all hope,she loved you sincerly as her man and now you want your parents only. I am not making you sad.I know that parents are important and they are like God.But this is not at a good solution.You are keeping things hidden from everyone.You are the only son of your parents - that means their only asset for future.So cant they understand your feelings towards that gal?Initially they may be against.But you can convince them slowly.How can you close your true affair even without a single try?Go man,get ready to take some risk for your loved one.Pls dont ignore her.Its like killing her.She made her family ready for you,its your turn now.I hope things will be fine at last.

Oct 30, 2011 Rating Change your mind by: Anonymous What you are doing now is not fair.You are not giving any importance to your gal's feelings.How can you avoid a gal whom you loved for past 4 years at this stage of your life where you need to take serious decisions?If you lack the courage to introduce the matter before your parents,then i can say you are a coward.If you are that much concerned about your parents,you could have think it earlier before you started your love.At least that gal is saved from you.But you gave her all hope,she loved you sincerly as her man and now you want your parents only. I am not making you sad.I know that parents are important and they are like God.But this is not at a good solution.You are keeping things hidden from everyone.You are the only son of your parents - that means their only asset for future.So cant they understand your feelings towards that gal?Initially they may be against.But you can convince them slowly.How can you close your true affair even without a single try?Go man,get ready to take some risk for your loved one.Pls dont ignore her.Its like killing her.She made her family ready for you,its your turn now.I hope things will be fine at last.

Jul 29, 2009 Rating Conservative family, inter caste love - like with my boyfriend by: Anonymous My situation is also like this: Conservative family, inter-caste love. My boyfriend cannot marry me because of the caste problem, but he told right from the begining :(, but still we love each other and I really can't lead my life without him. **** further comment, from Elsa: This is a hard situation. We know the caste system is wrong, but it exists. Love also exists. What can we do? Is the best we can do to make sure we are different, that we bring up our children differently? Even that will not solve many things: other people will still be conservative and uphold this big injustice, the caste system. What are your thoughts and experiences?

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