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My boyfriend seem to have lost all interest in me...............PLEASE HELP

I am a 19 year old college girl. My boy friend is in some other country for his studies.

My problem is when he was here (during his vacation), I felt that he loves me truly but now when he went back he hardly talks to me.
I called him 3 times but he was busy so i dropped the idea of catching him over phone. The
internet is the only mode of communication left now , but here also he hardly shows interest in talking to me. Moreover, he appears offline over messenger many times so it gives me a hint that he is ignoring me.

We belong to different castes, so it is not possible for us to get married.

A few days ago he told me that he doesn't want to get seriously engaged in this relationship because he is scared regarding our future (as we don't have any future together).

He also old me once how busy he is with his studies and all. This may be one reason for not being able to spend time with me.

But then I feel no matter how busy you are, you always have at least 5 minutes yo be with the person you love.

His this attitude annoys me a lot.

Is he planning a break up with me?

Or has he got a new girl in his life? But I don't think so as I completely trust him in this regard.

Is it because he has lost all his love and interest in me or something else? Or is it because of the insecurities regarding the future?

I love him a lot and on no condition I want to lose him. Moreover, I am not able to concentrate on my studies.

Please help me so that I can have him back in my life.

THANK YOU.



My answer. I don't have the sense I can help you get him back in your life. I don't know what feelings he has for you, but it seems he is giving more weight to something you both believe, that there is no future for the 2 of you.

If I have any suggestion, it is that the more you show interest and eagerness, the more likely it is that he keeps pulling away. You chase. He runs.

However, even if you stop trying to contact him, he may well stay away.

Love - not something easy.

My big sense: you deserve to have someone who really loves you, whom you don't need to chase, someone who loves you and shows he loves you, as much as you love him.

All the best,

Elsa

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