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She Has Changed. She is Different. Help Please.

Hi, I am 25 yr old male. My girl and I have been having a relation for the last 3 years, and it was time to get married soon but something is happening to us.

I don't know. We are not feeling the same as we were 2 years back. She says I have changed but what I find is she is acting as if I am not important for her. Previously she used to ask me and tell me every little thing happening in her life, even some of the personal secrets, but now she doesn't.

One day she told me about her friend who used to send her adult messages and they were sharing porn films. I didn't liked it so I told her to speak to her friend and tell her not to send or share such things, but she got angry and now she feel I am putting burdens on her. Is this normal?

I want a girl who will take good care of my family as I am the only son. She was a wonderful and innocent girl but now she is not.

What made her change so badly or is it just my perspective? We had a dream to get settled down with each other but now she behaves very differently. We had promised each other for marriage. We together had so many future plans. We even had physical relations but now it all feels wired to me.

Maybe I am wrong...

Can you please tel me, should I carry on this relationship? Should I let her do what she wants? Even to go out with her such friends?

It's very hard to forget her so easily. I am lost. Please help me.

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One thing is obvious. She has changed. And it does not seem she is about to change back. Instead she seems to be changing ever more.

How to help with that? Most of the time, people who are changing do not change back. (Sometimes they do - it's just a temporary thing.)

When someone makes a big change, sometimes we want to be with the changing person. Sometimes we do not. And sometimes the person who is changing no longer feels right in the relationship.

Can you ask her what she wants now?

Also, it sounds as if you need to ask yourself: is this person who is emerging the one you want to be with all your life?

Change is not easy. Sometimes changes suit us; at other times they do not.

My biggest comment: it is much better that the changes happen now than after marriage. You need to figure out if you are really right for each other.

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