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What should I do now?..

by machu
(pala,kottayam,kerala.india)

I was loving a girl for 5 years, but she doesn't know that I didn't have the courage to propose her because I knew that she is not at all that kind of person. She does not believe in love. My schoolmate told her about my wish and she was angry with me she told me that she considered me as a good friend and I cheated her ......

I made a story and made her believe that he was simply boasting... and everyone in the class was suspecting me as loving you and that's why he did this...

She believed and asked me to be her brother .... I agreed but didn't keep my word... I started calling her regularly .... she had no problem....... she was asking me whether I loved her or not and I replied no ... and she told not to talk 2 her in front of anyone.....

One day when I called her she told me that her family is not interested in my calling and to stop it ... I stopped it ... and after that every one of her friends are scolding me saying that I am a cheater ...

She never minded me after that.... I am really sad...

Please tell me what can I do.



What answer can I give? Well, it certainly sounds as if not telling the truth is not helpful, at least not in the long run. Can you tell her any of the truth? Is this too difficult? Do you think she as interested in you, and just did not say?

Or maybe she could feel your interest, and did not want this in her life. In that case, there is nothing to do, except feel sad for a time, and then let your heart open to someone else.

My question: what do you feel, in your heart? Do you feel she had any romantic interest in you? If so, it makes sense to ask her that, in some say to get that kind of conversation started.

If people were saying you cheated her, it seems that maybe they thought she did have some interest in you, and you were too shy to express it.

Not easy, all this love stuff - risking rejection, being shy, speaking even a tiny bit which of course again risks getting hurt, or keeping silent which can lead to even more hurt, like in your case.

All the best that you and the girl can find a way to tell more of the truth to each other, in a way that does not hurt either of you, and which could bring you closer - maybe as friends, maybe as more.

All the best,

Elsa

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