Confused. My girlfriend cheated. Very confusing.

Dear Dr Zee,

A few weeks back my girl friend kissed another girl on the mouth. We were down in a friend's house when it happened and I don’t know what to do.

Now I am starting to like the other girl, not the one that my girl friend kissed, and to make it worse my own girl friend started putting my hand into this other girl’s hand and she started lying on my shoulder when the other one wasn’t there.

Please help me because I am very confused and am really starting to like the other girl and don't know what to do.

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It sounds confusing. What to do? It sounds as if you all have some figuring out to do, about who likes whom, maybe about sexual orientation. Confusion is part of figuring things out, what we live, whom we like.