Help love relationship problem! Help marriage problem!
Two of the most common cries for help in our society.
Ask Dr Zee. Common relationship problem. Common love problem.
Uncommon answers.

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"In love you could shine like a brilliant star."

Help love relationship problem! Help marriage problem!

Two of the most common cries for help in our society.
Sinking ships - in our society, over and over that's sinking relationships,
relationships falling apart, spewing toxic waste in all directions -
or relationships going to the bottom of the ocean, love locked deep inside,
but nothing strong enough to get through to the love.

Help love relationship problem! Help marriage problem!
Dr Zee can't actually come to the rescue.

She's not the calm expert,
safely perched high on a mountaintop.

She's eager not to drown in messy problems.
She's searching for answers, checking out what works for her.

The cries keep coming.

Over here! Common relationship problem. Common love problem.

No, over here! Help marriage problem. Marriage problem relationship.
Common marriage problem. Marriage problem stable!

She isn't sure if she heard that one right. Marriage problem stable? 
Does that mean, problem in a stable relationship? Is that it? It could be.
But often the marriage is not stable - it's the problem that's stable,
making the relationship stale.

Help marriage problem! Help love relationship problem!
In marriage problem - comes another cry.
That must be an internet way of saying, problem in marriage,
marriage in trouble, relationship in trouble, maybe on the rocks,
maybe coming up to a rocky channel.

Love relationship problem! Help marriage problem!
Common marriage problem! Common love relationship problem!
Common, maybe, but usually it means there's more than a little trouble.

In a long term relationship,
the problem often becomes acute -
like an appendix set to rupture.

Sharp like hunger pains.
Dull like a knife that won't cut when we want it to. Deadening.

Help love relationship problem! Help marriage problem! Help love problem!
Help hating problem! Help anger problem in love, in marriage,
in everyday living!

Herself swimming in the sea of everyday love and everyday frictions,
which problem should Dr Zee address first?

Help love. Yes, she wants to help love.

Love problem advice. Marriage problem advice.
She's not sure what she can come up with.

On the horizon is an everyday enemy of love –
ongoing anger, that erodes like the waves of the ocean wear away rock.

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