Dr Zees LoveLine
"In love you could shine like a brilliant star."

Dr Zees LoveLine on Good Caring, Letting Go of Shame, Anger,
Active Imagination, Rekindle Relationship.
Fortune Cookie: In Love You Could Shine Like a Brilliant Star.
How?

NEW
Just Imagine That!
the power and perils of an
active imagination
It's not just make believe.
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Keeping the Love Light Burning
by lessening the stockpile of anger
Solution - easier said than done.
Maybe a good starting point is doing our best to keep the baddies out,
and get rid of the baddies that have crept in.

One of the biggest baddies is a storehouse of anger on both sides.
That's great for getting quite some fire going - but the opposite of a love light.
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When Anger Comes At Us
flight, fight, or what?
My first impulse - avoid the anger, ignore it, and maybe give in to it,
usually without spelling out that I've done this. It can be easier to shrug,
"It just isn't worth it."

Next impulse - get angry back, frustrated, furious, irate, resentful. Often that's not very successful in resolving the issue, reaching the other, or getting out of my own anger.
What might work?  
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On Caring
love, empathy, compassion, anxiety, worry, dread, fear, plus
Caring - at least for some of us, it's a core part of a life that has meaning for us. I care -
and I have something to get up for in the morning. I care - and life is full, overfull,
with passion, curiosity, initiative, pleasure. I don't care - life is dull, boring, a drag.
So what, I don't care - I'm sullen, numb, angry, unless there are also things I care for.
I care - I warm up.

Caring connects me. To someone I know - partner, child, friend, family, student.
To someone in an novel, film, news report. To something - an interest, a concern, a passion.
Caring also connects me to myself - I care about my health, future, life, well-being, choices.    
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Caring - Ingredient #1 - Emotions click here

Caring - Ingredient #2 - Being Seen, and Reflected Back  click here

Caring - Ingredient #3 - Good Priorities  click here
RIGHT NOW I AM INCLINED TO THINK THAT THIS
MAY BE THE MOST INGREDIENT IN CARING.
AT THE VERY LEAST, IT IS CRUCIAL. click here

Caring - More Ingredients  click here

What Do We Really Want? Need?
lots of technology, lots of dissatisfaction
We have more things than ever, but that leaves many of us empty.
So what do we really want, need?
Sad Blank Faces
Wants vs Needs
Self Satisfaction
The Words Say It All

Shamed Half to Death
from a wall of shame to letting go of shame
1 major source of shame, 1 major inner resource to combat it,
and 1 vital external resource.
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Love Problems
sinking relationships, no one-step solutions
Help, love relationship problem!
One of the most common cries for help in our society.
Common problem, no easy common solution.
But an approach to problems.
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To be continued,

signed,

Dr Zee


copyright © Elsa Schieder 2006, 2011
publishing house - FlufferDuff Impressions 2006, 2011

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comments, questions, experiences, more ideas

DR ZEE and her LOVELINE
SHELLS * SPELLS * CARING * CONNECTION * CRAZINESS
love liking hate anger rage disconnection boredom * relationships relating *
good caring, healthy priorities, active imagination, letting go of shame, rage anger
DR ZEE and her LOVELINE

Dr Zees LoveLine -
"In love you could shine like a brilliant star."
Message from a fortune cookie.

How do we get the love and good living we know,
deep inside ourselves, is possible?
Explorations, questions, experiences
from on the way to the love life
we've always known is possible.

Click here for Keeping the Lovelight Burning.

Click here the start of an exploration of Caring -
and an invitation to add your own thoughts.

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Dr Zees LoveLine

"In love you could shine like a brilliant star."
Well, maybe you could and maybe you couldn't,
but most, there are no guarantees here, no promises,
just suggestions at best.

So much of my life I have longed for more love,
most of all for more loving feeling in me,
for things like falling in love, heart melting open wide,
heart breaking open wide.

The LoveLine - for fuller living.

Dr Zees LoveLine - part of my own life line.

signed,

Dr Zee
of Dr Zees LoveLine
September 30, 2006


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publishing house - FlufferDuff Impressions 2006

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